.discipline + dedication are the next two keys

hey beautiful,


so I just came with a quick message for you today.


i feel like you need to dedicate yourself. like you have to dedicate yourself in order to get the things that you truly desire out of life + to get them expeditiously. yeah, if you don’t dedicate yourself you can still get the things that you want but it’s not going to be no time soon. it’s not going to be on the quickest route to you. it’s not just going to appear. there’s going to be so much extra work that has to be done because you’re not dedicated to it, you’re not focused on it, you’re not working towards these things or moving towards these things + making sure you do everything that you have to do to get there.

your checklist is still going to be there whether you check things off or not + you know you’re mission is not going to be complete until you check all the things off… so start checking things off the list babes. start doing everything you have to do + discipline yourself as well. if you know you have three more things on your to do list you should not be playing around. you have the the chance to take a long break but eventually you have to clock back in + you can’t stay on break mode forever. so dedicate yourself to the things you have to do.

dedicate yourself to your checklist. discipline yourself so you’re not spending too much time on something that you should not be spending too much time on. actually make the effort to check things off your to do list. dedicate yourself to do the things that you know you have to do or that you should try. you have to put yourself out there cause it’s not going to get done unless you do them yourself. so really dedicate yourself my baby. let’s do this. let’s let’s go all in.

remember when we used to get rubrics in school for projects + you will have different numbers for how much of something you accomplished? let’s go for all fives. let’s go for straight fives across the board. i’m also realizing actually writing everything out like all the things you have to do + checking them off as you go. giving them places to go… giving them days + months… that helps. okay? so, take that advice + do with that as you will.

i love you.

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.please enter your new destination

hey beautiful,

so today is a new moon + i don’t know, i’m kind of feeling like… i expected the beginning of this year to just be so refreshing + motivating + energizing + it’s just was not. like it did not bring that energy but i guess it did bring the energy that was needed cause when you come to think about it, like all year, all 2021, it was hustle + grind + create + produce. + even in the reading for this year 2022 on the last episode, this is the year of rest. so i kind of get it now. i kind of still wish there was a lot more energy. but it just doesn’t need to be i guess. this is just something that we’re going to have to get used to going into this new year; not being on go so much, not constantly creating + producing + cranking things out + just chilling + vibing + calling things to us instead of just constantly running towards something. because we need that. like we need to be where we are and be able to relax + just exist + i feel like this is honestly the best way to start off the year.

i remember seeing something
that said “what you’re doing the first day of the new year is what you will be doing throughout it” + at first i was thinking “dang, i’m sluggish low key like i don’t really feel too hot, i don’t really want to do much” but that’s exactly what i’m going to be doing all year. chilling, relaxing, enjoying life, creating, existing + being free. being myself. so i appreciate that when i actually take the time to look at the picture a little different. i see, okay cool, this is what it is + this is what it ain’t + i’m just excited for this year + today is the new moon. i believe it’s in Capricorn… let me check. yeah the new moon is in Capricorn and i’ve been seeing stuff.

i didn’t do a reading on the new moon cause i feel like i should have did it a couple days ago if i was going to do it but i was looking at other people’s readings that they were doing + basically i kept seeing setting your intentions + focusing your energies towards what you want. this is going to be an intense energy + it is bringing new beginnings + blessings + something is in retrograde. okay i’m looking at something now + i know for the reading for the year, it was saying focus on your intentions. + it says “focus on your intentions. what do you want to feel? feel this feeling + decide what in your life needs to shift to support this feeling.”

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so, set your intentions today if you don’t do nothing else. set your intentions for the year. write out the things that you want to bring into this year, into this month, into this week, into your days. set your intentions every day you wake up. before you do anything, when you’re going into something, when you’re talking to the people around you, when you’re looking for something, when you’re trying something new + you’re creating, have your intentions set on what is the end goal. make sure that you’re not just doing stuff for nothing + just floating aimlessly throughout this life. set your intentions so you can know what you need to do and where you need to go to get there. i feel like you really need to ask for things you want like close mouths don’t get fed. that’s just been a message on my mind today like ask for what you want…being afraid of rejection.

+ that’s actually a chapter that i read today in “Conquering Fear” by Harold S Kushner. it was the fear of rejection, like you can’t allow the fear of being turned down,of being a let go, of being denied stop you from trying for the things you want. especially when you look at it as not rejection but guidance into a new direction. just because you didn’t get that job or that person didn’t want to be with you anymore or you didn’t make the team or this brand don’t want to work with you, that’s okay. it wasn’t for you at that moment. something may work out later along the line or it might be the push that you needed to go in a new direction. so sometimes when you try out for things + it doesn’t work it has nothing to do with you personally or your lack of, or your nonabilities but it’s actually good for you.

that just goes back to knowing that you’re safe, you’re always in the right place. everything is always working out for you. everything is going towards your highest good. yaknowaimsaying? so i just need you to know that. having that fear of rejection my baby, you need to let it go + that’s another thing that we were saying about being yourself. stepping out as yourself, presenting yourself to world, allowing the world to see you because you cannot be rejected by people who are meant for you. if something is meant for you, my baby, it’s meant for you but you will never know unless you go for it, unless you put yourself out there, unless you try out + fill out that paper, unless you go to the place you will never know what life has in store for you. you will never know my baby so i’m trying to tell you how to do these things.

i just had to tell you that you need to go for everything that you want this year. like this is your year. if you want something my baby, you have to go get it. it is sitting right there for you + it might not be in the first place you look it might not be in a 2nd, the 7th, the 12th but it might be in the 13th. just keep looking for the thing that you want to find in your life + eventually you will find it. if you never go looking, if you never sign up for the scavenger hunt, if you never go to the place where this thing is. if you stay stuck in the place where you are where you know there’s no possible reason for this thing that you want to be there, if you’ve never seen it before where you are, you have to go somewhere different. you have to push yourself out there you have to try to reach this new place. yaknowaimsaying? you have to map it out, you have to figure out the travels + you have to see yourself doing it + then actually go do it.

set your intentions for every single thing that you want this year to bring to you. everything that you want to step into + evolve into. i promise you my baby you gone have it cause you got to know that everything that you wanted last year, you got it + if you don’t have it physically, right now in this moment my baby it’s still right there. you just have not reached it yet. it’s still on this journey that you’re working towards + that you’re walking down, it’s still on your path somewhere but you just cannot see it until you get to it. so keep going after your dreams. keep deciding what you want, how you’re going to live + how you’re going to want your world you know what I’m saying? decide how you want to feel + then and then go for it. go feel it. go experience it.

if you want some sushi you’re not going to say “let me go to burger king” you know you want sushi so why not go to the sushi spot or publix? you’re not going to find sushi if you’re looking at Burger King. we have to actively make these decisions + actively know where we want to go + go in that direction my baby. yaknowaimsaying? you know you want to go home why would you go to another bar? you’re not going to find your bed there. you’re not going to find your makeup wipes there. you’re not going to find your soothing lullabies that lull you to sleep every night. you’re not going to find your partner there, your child, you’re not going to find your kitchen, your burrito that you had for lunch earlier that you were saving for when you got home you’re not going to find it in this place so you need to go to where you are likely to find these things you desire my baby okay? make sure you are aligning yourself with the places that you want to go to. you don’t need to sign up for field trips that you don’t want to go to just because it’s cool + everybody else is hanging out there…no. you know there’s nothing for you there so don’t go. don’t do it. okay? put yourself first. do what you want to do for you. relax.

oh, another message my baby: a clean house is cool but a clean house 24/7 is CRAZY. that’s actually crazy. you is doing too much. yaknowaimsaying? you either don’t have kids, don’t make a lot of mess, don’t cook… you know barely be home. but if you are a regular degular person, mom, creative… relax.

i love you.

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.going against everything you’ve ever known

hey beautiful,

lately, the need to do our own thing, to think outside of the outside of the box, to carve out our own path instead of taking any that were travelled before has been in the air heavy.

for some reason, the normal doesn’t fit anymore. it’s almost as if we’ve outgrown it without any desire to ever squeeze into it again. we lost something that were more than okay with losing + because of that, we gained more than we ever had. we have more than we ever imagined we were capable of having. how beautiful is that?

sometimes, stepping out of line and going somewhere else is the best thing to do. even if you’ve been waiting there for the longest and you can finally see the front.

sometimes building your own thing from scratch is better than the finished product that everyone has been raving about for the past 20 years.

+ sometimes no one is going to believe in what you’re dreaming of + that’s more than okay. that’s the exact time where you increase your focus + drive yourself to the finish line with the least amount of stops possible. the time that you show up for yourself + go in on everything that you love.

the time to believe in yourself + block out any outside opinions + oppositions. cause at this point it isn’t about anyone else. it isn’t about proving everyone else wrong, but proving yourself right. proving that you can do anything you put your mind to. because you can.

you can do everything you want to do if you just believe it. i know we used to hear that a lot growing up, but it’s true. now is not the time to forget this, especially now that you desire a certain way of living. you can have it. you can have it all.

i love you

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.i love my life

i love my life.

i love my life.

i love my life.

that’s what you need to tell yourself throughout each + every day. you have to know that you’re walking in love every single moment. when you love life, life starts to love you back and that’s the best life to live. a life full of love, happiness + abundance. the life that you’re already living. if you tilt your head a little bit, and maybe even squint, you’ll see it crystal clear.

remember when the trend “i h*** my life” was going around? did you participate in saying that? it was a trick, you were bamboozled into casting a not so wonderful spell upon your life. saying those words created the reality that you were living in + of course manifested a plethora of things that caused you to h*** your life. but now we can change those words. we can start casting a different spell to work some new magic. i mean, it’s spooky season, we really need to tap into our inner witch + wizard.

think of all the spells you cast on a regular with all the things you say every day. you can now choose to change these ways. you can change the direction of where you’re going with a simple pivot of your foot, one easy flick of a light switch. + you can do it right now. you have been choosing everything that has been happening in your life. just take a peep at trying something new, if you don’t then you can go back to the way things were. but you’ll never know unless you try.

also, the people that are currently in your life… don’t lose them. the relationships you have been building are all meaningful and they will continue to grow. just like the spells you’ve been casting, you’ve been choosing to be distant and not maintain relationships with people but it’s time to change. now, you can learn some new skills and keep them alive. the love that you’ve been giving yourself has gotten to level where you can stat pouring into others and not be burnt out. this feels good, you know it does.

keep doing everything that you’re doing, you’re on the right track.

i love you.

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.i love me

hey boo,

the years of not appreciating yourself have come to an end. you now know that there’s no way you can love anyone else more than you love yourself. you also know you can’t expect anyone to love you when you’re not sure of your own self love. accepting yourself for exactly who you are is all your soul has been waiting for this entire time and now that it’s receiving it’s ultimate wish, life is so much better.

it’s safe for you to completely be yourself + although this is a new feeling, it’s a pretty great one. you no longer have to hide + protect the person you are out of the fear of being rejected because that fear is leaving the premises as we speak. no one who is truly meant to be a part of your life can reject you or not like you, that’s just not how that works. when you’re 100% true to yourself, it will seem like almost everyone in the world is flocking to you like gnats finding comfort in a streetlight.

you’re radiating love and light + you’re attracting all the good things that are meant for you. all the love that you were meant to receive is here for you now. you deserve the unlimited abundance of love the universe has to offer + now that you know that, you can start collecting everything that is rightfully yours. observe that shift that happens in your world around you now that is has the company of everlasting love.

prepare yourself because it’s going to be quite remarkable.

i love you.

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.simply amazing

hey boo,

ever since you’ve decided to allow love to be a permanent resident in your life things have started to change for the better. have you noticed that? everything has started to blossom right before your eyes simply because you decided that it was time to. you saw that your garden needed to be tended too + deserved a little more love + now look. look at all the abundance that you’ve cultivated. now try to imagine everything that’s going to flourish as you keep doing what you’re doing.

allowing all of the love to flow into your life has also allowed love to flow out of you into the people around you and this has manifested into beautiful relationships. even if these relationships have not yet reached their full potential, it’s already the start of something new + if you really take some time to examine them, you will be able to find the beauty in them. maybe it’s an unfamiliar beauty because you’ve never seen it before but it’s beauty nonetheless. everything around you is looking better + better with each moment that passes.

the days of not being able to maintain healthy relationships are behind you now because you know so much more + you know that in order to have the things you desire you have to be the one that does everything to obtain them. no one else is going to hand you anything or do all of the hard work for you. in order to see a change, you have to be the change + the rewards of working so hard for these things make them that much better. you have to be one who calls the shots + you realize that now.

you’re healing. everything you’re growing through is a part of your healing process + you can’t stop here now can you? can you even remember how things used to be? better question: can you imagine stopping right here + going back to where you once were? i highly doubt the answer is yes. this entire journey is so worth it. every pain, challenge, tear, smile, stretch… everything. it’s all a contribution to the person you are becoming. and that person is simply amazing.

i love you.

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.flocks of abundance

hey boo,

everything is working out for your greater good + realizing that is key to get everything you want out of life. the internal battle is coming to an end after years of no rest because you’ve decided on peace. you’ve realized there’s no need to continue a war with yourself because either way you’re the only one getting hurt.

blessings are flocking to you in many different ways and you’re more open to them now. there still may be a small amount of resistance you have because of the many years of training you’ve done but that’s more on the “just in case” side which is much better than the front line. you got this. continue being open to these things and they will continue to flock to you. soon, you’ll be surrounded by more abundance and greatness than you could’ve ever imagined.

this is your destiny. this very moment is your destiny.

i love you

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.body ody ody

hey boo,

have you been ignoring your body lately? when you go throughout your days you have to keep in mind that you are a multidimensional being. you are more than your thoughts, body + emotions. you are all of those things and then some. sometimes your body will speak to you by causing pain or dis-ease, all you have to do is tune in and you can easily figure out when something isn’t right + what that something is.

we have come to a time where we’ve been trained to quickly turn to doctors to figure out what is going on with our bodies + medicine to get rid of the symptoms. with that being the norm, it’s not a surprise that most of us are disconnected with the very vessels that we were given to go through this life with. it’s not too late to really get to know + understand your body.

with the constant comparison of everyone on social media, tv + magazines we can forget that we’re all unique. so, what works for the next 2,000 people may not work for you + that is okay. that’s completely normal. we have to get back in tune with our true selves + figure out what works best for us.

start paying attention to your body especially when the same things occur at different times. you may find that there is a clear pattern to it all. you just have to take note of everything that’s going on + when these things come up. your body is really your temple, if you don’t take care of it, it is more than capable of crumbling.

i love you.

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.no more bubble wrap

hey boo,

have you been feeling trapped lately? today is the perfect time to look deeper into what exactly has you feeling like this. you have to start believing you are safe exactly who, where, how, what + why you are. the life that you used to live pleasing others is behind you so it’s time to fully step into the role of you. there is no one who can do you better than you. there’s also no one who can tell you how to live your life because it completely belongs to you.

if there’s something you’ve been dreaming of or wanting to do but you haven’t because of how other people may feel about it or look at you, this is your sign to go for it. no matter if it’s not tradition, it’s something that’s never been done before or whatever the case maybe… you should go for it. you can no longer be afraid to live your dream life because how the masses believe life should be lived. it’s your turn now + if you want to take a different route, you have every right to.

when you go for this thing, you have to make sure you’re going for it with minimum fear. these voices from outside of you may have convinced you that what you have planned may not work, but you have to silence these thoughts + chant words of confidence + reassurance to yourself. it may take some time to gain your full confidence but it’s best to start on your projects and build it as you go instead of waiting to start working when it’s fully built.. cause in that case, you’ll be waiting forever.

you got this. whatever it is that you want to do, know that you can do it. know that this is part of your journey + this is what you were meant to do. start unraveling all those protective + limiting layers that the world has been wrapping you up in. you’ve arrived at your destination, you no longer need the bubble wrap that has been “protecting” you from life.

i love you .

.the perfect age

hey boo,

i just wanted to remind you that you are at the perfect stage in life. enjoy where you are right now + know that this is exactly where you’re meant to be. you’re not too young, you’re not too old, you’re the perfect age for you. you’re figuring things out at your own pace + that is exactly how it should be.

if you find yourself comparing other people’s lives to yours… stop. you are not them + they are not you, so why bother comparing and contrasting? everyone is on their own journey so it’s going to look different from person to person, that’s one of the many joy’s in life. if everyone was on the same path at the same time that would be a huge snooze fest.

trust this process that you’re on. know that you’re going to be exactly where you need to be when you should be there. you can not be too late or too early to your own party that is life. you’re always on time. know that.

i love you.

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