.please enter your new destination

hey beautiful,

so today is a new moon + i don’t know, i’m kind of feeling like… i expected the beginning of this year to just be so refreshing + motivating + energizing + it’s just was not. like it did not bring that energy but i guess it did bring the energy that was needed cause when you come to think about it, like all year, all 2021, it was hustle + grind + create + produce. + even in the reading for this year 2022 on the last episode, this is the year of rest. so i kind of get it now. i kind of still wish there was a lot more energy. but it just doesn’t need to be i guess. this is just something that we’re going to have to get used to going into this new year; not being on go so much, not constantly creating + producing + cranking things out + just chilling + vibing + calling things to us instead of just constantly running towards something. because we need that. like we need to be where we are and be able to relax + just exist + i feel like this is honestly the best way to start off the year.

i remember seeing something
that said “what you’re doing the first day of the new year is what you will be doing throughout it” + at first i was thinking “dang, i’m sluggish low key like i don’t really feel too hot, i don’t really want to do much” but that’s exactly what i’m going to be doing all year. chilling, relaxing, enjoying life, creating, existing + being free. being myself. so i appreciate that when i actually take the time to look at the picture a little different. i see, okay cool, this is what it is + this is what it ain’t + i’m just excited for this year + today is the new moon. i believe it’s in Capricorn… let me check. yeah the new moon is in Capricorn and i’ve been seeing stuff.

i didn’t do a reading on the new moon cause i feel like i should have did it a couple days ago if i was going to do it but i was looking at other people’s readings that they were doing + basically i kept seeing setting your intentions + focusing your energies towards what you want. this is going to be an intense energy + it is bringing new beginnings + blessings + something is in retrograde. okay i’m looking at something now + i know for the reading for the year, it was saying focus on your intentions. + it says “focus on your intentions. what do you want to feel? feel this feeling + decide what in your life needs to shift to support this feeling.”

@spiritdaughter on ig

so, set your intentions today if you don’t do nothing else. set your intentions for the year. write out the things that you want to bring into this year, into this month, into this week, into your days. set your intentions every day you wake up. before you do anything, when you’re going into something, when you’re talking to the people around you, when you’re looking for something, when you’re trying something new + you’re creating, have your intentions set on what is the end goal. make sure that you’re not just doing stuff for nothing + just floating aimlessly throughout this life. set your intentions so you can know what you need to do and where you need to go to get there. i feel like you really need to ask for things you want like close mouths don’t get fed. that’s just been a message on my mind today like ask for what you want…being afraid of rejection.

+ that’s actually a chapter that i read today in “Conquering Fear” by Harold S Kushner. it was the fear of rejection, like you can’t allow the fear of being turned down,of being a let go, of being denied stop you from trying for the things you want. especially when you look at it as not rejection but guidance into a new direction. just because you didn’t get that job or that person didn’t want to be with you anymore or you didn’t make the team or this brand don’t want to work with you, that’s okay. it wasn’t for you at that moment. something may work out later along the line or it might be the push that you needed to go in a new direction. so sometimes when you try out for things + it doesn’t work it has nothing to do with you personally or your lack of, or your nonabilities but it’s actually good for you.

that just goes back to knowing that you’re safe, you’re always in the right place. everything is always working out for you. everything is going towards your highest good. yaknowaimsaying? so i just need you to know that. having that fear of rejection my baby, you need to let it go + that’s another thing that we were saying about being yourself. stepping out as yourself, presenting yourself to world, allowing the world to see you because you cannot be rejected by people who are meant for you. if something is meant for you, my baby, it’s meant for you but you will never know unless you go for it, unless you put yourself out there, unless you try out + fill out that paper, unless you go to the place you will never know what life has in store for you. you will never know my baby so i’m trying to tell you how to do these things.

i just had to tell you that you need to go for everything that you want this year. like this is your year. if you want something my baby, you have to go get it. it is sitting right there for you + it might not be in the first place you look it might not be in a 2nd, the 7th, the 12th but it might be in the 13th. just keep looking for the thing that you want to find in your life + eventually you will find it. if you never go looking, if you never sign up for the scavenger hunt, if you never go to the place where this thing is. if you stay stuck in the place where you are where you know there’s no possible reason for this thing that you want to be there, if you’ve never seen it before where you are, you have to go somewhere different. you have to push yourself out there you have to try to reach this new place. yaknowaimsaying? you have to map it out, you have to figure out the travels + you have to see yourself doing it + then actually go do it.

set your intentions for every single thing that you want this year to bring to you. everything that you want to step into + evolve into. i promise you my baby you gone have it cause you got to know that everything that you wanted last year, you got it + if you don’t have it physically, right now in this moment my baby it’s still right there. you just have not reached it yet. it’s still on this journey that you’re working towards + that you’re walking down, it’s still on your path somewhere but you just cannot see it until you get to it. so keep going after your dreams. keep deciding what you want, how you’re going to live + how you’re going to want your world you know what I’m saying? decide how you want to feel + then and then go for it. go feel it. go experience it.

if you want some sushi you’re not going to say “let me go to burger king” you know you want sushi so why not go to the sushi spot or publix? you’re not going to find sushi if you’re looking at Burger King. we have to actively make these decisions + actively know where we want to go + go in that direction my baby. yaknowaimsaying? you know you want to go home why would you go to another bar? you’re not going to find your bed there. you’re not going to find your makeup wipes there. you’re not going to find your soothing lullabies that lull you to sleep every night. you’re not going to find your partner there, your child, you’re not going to find your kitchen, your burrito that you had for lunch earlier that you were saving for when you got home you’re not going to find it in this place so you need to go to where you are likely to find these things you desire my baby okay? make sure you are aligning yourself with the places that you want to go to. you don’t need to sign up for field trips that you don’t want to go to just because it’s cool + everybody else is hanging out there…no. you know there’s nothing for you there so don’t go. don’t do it. okay? put yourself first. do what you want to do for you. relax.

oh, another message my baby: a clean house is cool but a clean house 24/7 is CRAZY. that’s actually crazy. you is doing too much. yaknowaimsaying? you either don’t have kids, don’t make a lot of mess, don’t cook… you know barely be home. but if you are a regular degular person, mom, creative… relax.

i love you.

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.closing the curtains

hey beautiful,

so… it is almost january the first + i just listened to the 2021 prediction again. i kind of just took some notes.
i just wanted to reflect on this year. really look at your growth. really admire how far you’ve came, really see all the things you’ve accomplished.

i was writing out all my major accomplishments this year + recently i’ve started writing out all my daily accomplishments. it just helps to see how far you’ve truly came, how much you truly do. so you can genuinely see how much you do + not give yourself the short end of the stick when it comes time to recognize who you are.

that’s one of the messages we’ve been receiving… “acknowledge everything you do” + that’s been a great way for me to do that. literally everything i did that day, i wrote it down. i went back + i acknowledged myself for those things.

2021 is coming to an end + it’s been quite the year. i feel like there’s been so much growth. so many developments + achievements… just a whole lot. one of the first things i had talked about 2021 bringing was emotions. getting a better understanding of your emotions + with that understanding came a very difficult journey, a very unknown journey. there was a comparison of going down a tunnel but there being jewels at the end of the tunnel. the whole tunnel ride is unknown, a little dark, not looking too familiar or promising but at the end there’s this beautiful product.

i feel like that happened exactly. i feel like we were able to feel how we feel, understand that + be unapologetic about it. that was a great lesson that was learned… being aware of who you are + being unapologetic about it. moving with intentions, using your emotions to help you navigate + make your decisions.

2021 was the year of moving forward. the year of becoming the creator of your own reality, understanding your powers + being present. getting out of your head + putting all of your powers to use was a huge thing that happened this year. you had to realize that you are always on time wherever you were in life + that allowed you to blossom into the person that you are right now. there was so much work that was completed + sometimes there was some overworking done but that has set you up for the year that you’re are stepping into.

2021 was the one + 2022 we are brand new.

give yourself a large round of applause for all of your hard work, dedication, drive and motivation. all the lessons you learned, the things you opened yourself up to, all the techniques you applied, all the strategies you built up, the people you met, the promises you delivered, the people you met, your health, the food you ate, the places you went. all of your daily accomplishments + visions that you brought to life. all of these things, you did. you prepared yourself for all of the greater things that are coming your way.

you did that. the entire year, you never gave up on yourself. you kept going, you kept working on yourself. your personal development that you experienced this year is actually crazy. it’s such a beautiful thing.

the doors are opening up for next year. are you ready?

i love you

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.a letter from december

hey beautiful,

it’s actually december.

it’s actually december.

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IT’S ACTUALLY DECEMBER.

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we just finished another 30 days (shoutout november for coming through) and we’re here in december now. i feel like this is the month i’ve been waiting for all my life. you know how we’ve been getting to the birth of our new life? we’re finally here. it’s finally time to deliver this beautiful baby + i’m exciteddddddd.

you’re about to give a whole birth to an entire new life… YOUR entire new life. that is simply amazing.

this is the healthiest, most beautiful, happiest life you’ve ever had in all your days + i’m so happy for you. i’m glad you’ve decided to be who you are no matter what anybody else’s thinks or what you think anybody else is thinking. you know your worth now + you’re not accepting anything less than what you deserve. you’ve set your boundaries, laid out your expectations + requirements + you’re not letting anyone or anything slip in your life if they can’t pay the fee. you’ve raised your prices + you’re not worried about not being affordable for others. i love that for you.

you can clearly see what you want out of life + i applaud you for that. it’s okay to have standards in your life. you know you’re the gift, you’re that girl, you’re the one who get’s to call the shots + you’ve started calling them. round of applause for you.

this month i want you to continue to do what you’ve been doing. continue building, growing + being yourself. keep allowing yourself to get more comfortable with you being you. show up as your true 100% self every single day. you’re going to have plenty opportunities to be you, speak your mind + go for the things you want + you should take it all in. have fun this month. take ALLLLLL the opportunities that come your way. + i do mean ALL of them. connect with all the people you can, have all the laughs, speak your mind, do everything you would do if you wanted to. i mean that with my entire heart.

you are safe to be you. you are safe to create. you are safe to connect. you are safe to love.

come outside to play this month. there’s nothing that can harm you here.

another thing you should focus on this month is clarity on your emotions. i know you’ve been working on this part of you recently so this is just a reminder to continue that work. continue doing everything that you are doing because you are doing it well. all of the seeds that you have been planting are blossoming and the fruits are almost ripe. just keep tending to this bountiful garden you created that is your life + enjoy the fruits of your labor. i’m glad you’re here right now + i’m glad you decided that you were going to have everything you do.

i did ask the question “what’s missing” and the answer that came up was “acknowledgement of your power”. please be sure to apply everything that you’ve been learning in your life. you’ve gained so much wisdom + had so many realizations, now it’s time to put the knowledge to use. you know you have the powers that you do + you should be using them every chance you get. be super. that’s the last thing you have to do to receive everything you’ve been working for. ❤

this month will be a beautiful month. you will have so many opportunities + blessings coming your way. this is the birth of your brand new life. everything is changing around you. this is everything you’ve been asking for.

i love you

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.every day is vacation

hey beautiful,

so let’s address the heffalump in the room… it’s been a while since i wrote you. my apologies, i have been lowkey incognito on the blog trying to figure out every other aspect of myReflexxion + so far, it’s been going pretty good. everything is falling into place as it should. with that being said, we are back here + even better. everything is changing as we grow + that’s a beautiful thing. i’m so glad we’re evolving.

speaking of evolving… i channeled some messages regarding this week that’s coming up + i would love to talk about it with you.
let’s start with the normal:

the messages of the week

“i trust the process of life. there is a rhythm + flow to life + i am a part of it. life supports me + brings to me only good + positive experiences. i trust the process of life to bring me to my highest good.”

the past few weeks we’ve seen such a huge change in our reality. literally our whole life is changing + we’re seeing how magical we are. as we continue to trust everything that the universe is putting together for us we will continue to grow. we will make all the progress necessary in our life to get all that we have been asking for. but we must remember to take our time. we must be patient with the process + not try to rush things to come into fruition. we don’t want a rushed result so we have to find patience so we’re able to put our all into this project we’re working on. rome was not built in a day.

we have to let this thing run it’s course completely before trying to move forward because if we keep trying to move before things are ready we’re only setting ourselves back more + more. we might as well wait until we’re at 100% battery life before we go out for a day of fun so we can enjoy it to the max. relax, everything is on the way my baby.

“divine wisdom guides me. i am guided throughout this day in making the right choices. divine intelligence continuously guides me in the realization of my goals. i am safe.”

it’s time that we stop playing hide + seek with the world but most importantly with ourselves. it’s okay to be who we are in the world. we can show up as ourselves authentically + not have any worries about anything. we were born to be us and with that came a built in gps to help navigate through life. so trust your intuition, trust in yourself + let yourself be. we are always being led in the direction that we are meant to go. we are the north star, so believe in that and tune in. we chose this lifestyle + it chose us right back, we’re literally the perfect match.

this is everything you’ve ever wanted. can’t you see that?

the energy of the week

relaxxxxxx. take your time with where you’re going. you don’t have to rush anything that is going on. this is really just a reiteration of the first message of the week so, we really need to pay attention here. ease off your own back. you’ve been breathing down it trying to make sure you get things done all the time. you are doing just fine. you are doing more than enough actually. you’ve been accomplishing so many things, growing so much + learning every single day. you are more than good. can’t you see that? it’s time to give yourself a break… you deserve it.

we can have fun in this life. we’re supposed to. what’s the point of working ourselves so hard if we never get to enjoy everything we’ve been working on?

another thing that this week is bringing is the energy of quietness. it can be so quiet in the world but so loud in our head + we need to continue to work on this. let’s work on grounding ourselves this week because we’re going to need it for the things that are coming up in this life. let’s find some time to meditate every day this week to make sure we are grounded throughout these days. getting out of our head + not talking to ourselves so much is going to get us far. the time to really get this off of your plate is now, so let’s geterdone. some times we need to float with life and see where it carries us. we’ve been swimming for a good minute now, it’s time to chill out for a lil bit.

the focus of the week

focus on existing. yes, we got the same message in three different ways. so you know this is screaming at us to get to where we need to go. we have to enjoy where we are right now. yes, we’re prepping hard for our future and we’re healing from our past but what about today? what about being present? what about who we are right now? who you are right now is way more important than who we were + who we are becoming combined. yes, it’s good to look back + it’s even good to look forward but i need you to appreciate where you are right now. you are enough. you are enough. you are enough.

every day for the next few weeks take some time to reflect on everything that you’ve been doing. every dream, every breakthrough you had + every accomplishment. it will allow you to see your growth and ground you even more.

this week is going to be great if we choose to enjoy it to the fullest. everything is coming into fruition okay? trust it. this right here is your dream life.

i love you.


i made a lockscreen for iPhones so you can be reminded of the messages for this week. if you want me to make one for android… just let me know + i’ll be happy to do so.

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.november 2021: a reading

hey boo,

it’s about that time. we’ve come to the conclusion of another 31 days and november has finally arrived to us for this year. before we dive into this new month so quickly, let’s take a look at october.

how do you feel october treated you? hopefully the answer is very well because it did it’s best. it came through + kept every word that it told us in the beginning. it came with major respect and manners. october was definitely a month of huge change + prosperity and sitting here at the end of it, you can see that now. you’re shifting your entire world one moment at a time + please keep it up because the show must go on.

these past few weeks we learned about accepting change, partnerships + as always… trusting the process. everything that you wanted to work out + you allowed it to work out did just that… it worked out exactly as it always has. continue building this trust in the universe so the bond is immaculate. there is plenty more abundance out there, october was just a taste.

the message

“i trust my inner wisdom. as i go about my daily affairs, i listen to my own guidance. my intuition is always on my side. i trust it to be there at all times. i am safe.”
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“divine wisdom guides me. i am guided throughout this day in making the right choices. divine intelligence continuously guides me in the realization of my goals. i am safe.”

with both of these cards coming out after one another this is kind of an exclamation mark. we really need to pay attention to our intuition + believe that we know where we are going. we already know + have everything that we need to lead us to that great destination. once you tell the universe where you want to go… you have to trust that the directions it gives you will lead you there. if you need to strengthen your intuition this month… by all means, please do that.

“my healing is already in process. my willingness to forgive begins my healing process. i allow the love form my own heart to wash through me, cleansing + healing every part of my body. i know that i am worth healing”

this healing journey is one that will continue to go on forever. you will continue to evolve every day you go through life + that is a beautiful thing. in order to heal my baby, you have to feel pain + this month… there will be a little extra healing involved. so any pain you feel this month, know that you are in the process of healing… that’s all this is. you’re shedding this layer of old and growing the necessary cells needed to protect your new self. continue shedding + growing, it will all be worth it.

“i now go beyond other people’s fears + limitations. it is my mind that creates my experiences. i am unlimited in my own ability to create the good in my life.”

you are the only co-creator of your life. there is no one else on this face of the earth who should be given the power to limit you or crush your dreams. all the ideas + beliefs that you have are yours + you should stand beside them until you can’t stand anymore… + even then… you have to sit beside them. you are changing the game because you decided too + people who have been playing the game the old way may not necessarily see why you want to change the rules because it’s been going okay. + if they see it this way, they definitely won’t agree with what you got going on. but know that that is not your problem + when you figure it all out + everything falls into place they might even want to know how you did it.

the energy

november is bringing abundance. we are in a rebirth stage. the old version of you is no longer existing my baby. you’re giving birth to this new life + that is a beautiful thing. know that with a birth, you have to go through growth, pains, being uncomfortable, LABOR + some more stuff. it isn’t going to just be delivered to your door… you have to go through somethings before you get what you’ve been working on. in order to have this thing, you have to have a little shake up. so things are going to have to get a little ugly. you can’t have ugly without beauty anyways. you’ve been preparing yourself for this new baby + the time is now. the contractions are getting intense but at the end of this it will all be so worth it.

keep putting yourself out there. keep stepping into your purpose + filling your life with your passion + a whole lot of love. all the love that you’ve been cultivating is going to allow your entire life to take off. this way that you’re doing things is the perfect way for you. november is coming through with a lot of beauty + also some challenges so let’s talk about it.

the challenges

continue to put yourself out there + release the people who are not meant to go where you’re going. it’s time for a weight check + it’s looking like you’re overcapacity. they can not come with you love, you can not save people who do not want to be saved. you’re going to have to look at these situations from a different perspective because you’re going to a place with a new view. upgrade your vision so you can really see how these situations are really playing themselves out. + once you move… everyone can not get an invite to the house warming party… or any party after that until they meet the new energy requirements. no worries… you will both have a great time on your own.

do not give any whiff of breath to old situations, habits or people. if you are going to bury this old version of life, you have to leave it there. we don’t want to see you at 2 o clock in the morning digging up a grave because you miss something or need something familiar for some comfort. it’s okay. you’ve outgrown these things. when you release them, release them with love. you don’t have to hate them or send them any negativity because you have to part ways. you can both still thrive.

the word

transformation:

a thorough or dramatic change in form or appearance.

this is a transformation. your whole world is about to have a huge change in form + appearance.

thank you in advance november. we are here waiting for you with open arms. make yourself at home.

let’s make best friends with this month love. november has a lot more in store for us than the sneak peek that it just gave us.

i love you.

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.simply amazing

hey boo,

ever since you’ve decided to allow love to be a permanent resident in your life things have started to change for the better. have you noticed that? everything has started to blossom right before your eyes simply because you decided that it was time to. you saw that your garden needed to be tended too + deserved a little more love + now look. look at all the abundance that you’ve cultivated. now try to imagine everything that’s going to flourish as you keep doing what you’re doing.

allowing all of the love to flow into your life has also allowed love to flow out of you into the people around you and this has manifested into beautiful relationships. even if these relationships have not yet reached their full potential, it’s already the start of something new + if you really take some time to examine them, you will be able to find the beauty in them. maybe it’s an unfamiliar beauty because you’ve never seen it before but it’s beauty nonetheless. everything around you is looking better + better with each moment that passes.

the days of not being able to maintain healthy relationships are behind you now because you know so much more + you know that in order to have the things you desire you have to be the one that does everything to obtain them. no one else is going to hand you anything or do all of the hard work for you. in order to see a change, you have to be the change + the rewards of working so hard for these things make them that much better. you have to be one who calls the shots + you realize that now.

you’re healing. everything you’re growing through is a part of your healing process + you can’t stop here now can you? can you even remember how things used to be? better question: can you imagine stopping right here + going back to where you once were? i highly doubt the answer is yes. this entire journey is so worth it. every pain, challenge, tear, smile, stretch… everything. it’s all a contribution to the person you are becoming. and that person is simply amazing.

i love you.

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.no more bubble wrap

hey boo,

have you been feeling trapped lately? today is the perfect time to look deeper into what exactly has you feeling like this. you have to start believing you are safe exactly who, where, how, what + why you are. the life that you used to live pleasing others is behind you so it’s time to fully step into the role of you. there is no one who can do you better than you. there’s also no one who can tell you how to live your life because it completely belongs to you.

if there’s something you’ve been dreaming of or wanting to do but you haven’t because of how other people may feel about it or look at you, this is your sign to go for it. no matter if it’s not tradition, it’s something that’s never been done before or whatever the case maybe… you should go for it. you can no longer be afraid to live your dream life because how the masses believe life should be lived. it’s your turn now + if you want to take a different route, you have every right to.

when you go for this thing, you have to make sure you’re going for it with minimum fear. these voices from outside of you may have convinced you that what you have planned may not work, but you have to silence these thoughts + chant words of confidence + reassurance to yourself. it may take some time to gain your full confidence but it’s best to start on your projects and build it as you go instead of waiting to start working when it’s fully built.. cause in that case, you’ll be waiting forever.

you got this. whatever it is that you want to do, know that you can do it. know that this is part of your journey + this is what you were meant to do. start unraveling all those protective + limiting layers that the world has been wrapping you up in. you’ve arrived at your destination, you no longer need the bubble wrap that has been “protecting” you from life.

i love you .

.the perfect age

hey boo,

i just wanted to remind you that you are at the perfect stage in life. enjoy where you are right now + know that this is exactly where you’re meant to be. you’re not too young, you’re not too old, you’re the perfect age for you. you’re figuring things out at your own pace + that is exactly how it should be.

if you find yourself comparing other people’s lives to yours… stop. you are not them + they are not you, so why bother comparing and contrasting? everyone is on their own journey so it’s going to look different from person to person, that’s one of the many joy’s in life. if everyone was on the same path at the same time that would be a huge snooze fest.

trust this process that you’re on. know that you’re going to be exactly where you need to be when you should be there. you can not be too late or too early to your own party that is life. you’re always on time. know that.

i love you.

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.buckle up

hey boo,

everything you’re experiencing right now is taking you to greater places. all the pain you’re feeling, all the joy, all the change… everything is created + crafted especially for you. i know, i know it’s all unfamiliar. it’s all strange looking + different but that’s a good thing. that means you’re changing + growing. if you were still doing the familiar routine, living the same life that would mean you were in the same place you were however long ago.

you have got to trust this process + know that life is not sending you on a rat race. you are in control now. you have set your destination + you know where you want to go, you just have to get there. think about when you’re going somewhere new + you enter the address into the gps. do you second guess the gps every time it tells you to go in a new direction? or do you just move forward + know that you’re going to get there because you told it where you want to go?

it’s the same thing with this journey in life that you’re on. you may not have had a concrete destination before so you were getting sent wherever the wind blew you. but now, things are different. now you have an exact location in mind so you can’t be steered wrong. have trust in the universe + have trust in yourself because you’re a team.

+ you picked the right teammate because you’re already winning.

i love you.

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.which hearse are you driving?

hey beautiful,

this past week was another one that was full of uncertainty but it was also another week of figuring things out. when we looked back at the messages that came up for this week, it was really spot on. each + every one of them was exactly how it played out. every time this happens (every week) it seems to be a little shocking like… how is this even real. it’s okay, we have to keep at it so we can get accustomed to how tapped in we are.

one of the main things we saw come up again was the need for grounding. there has to be some type of connection with you + this reality all of the time because if you don’t show up here every day, no one else can bring you here. you have to be willing + able to bring yourself to the present moment at all times. it’s a little challenge but… it will definitely be worth it all.

looking back at the message of this past week, it was “the best way to learn how to swim is to jump right in” and you kind of did. good job on that, round of applause, cheers and all those things of that nature. can i give you a tip though? there’s no need to panic after you’ve jumped in + you’re floating. you’re already in there so trust it. all of the scenarios that you’re creating in your head are unneccesary + can lead you to your demise. so, relax… it literally takes 0 effort to float. just trust it and go with it.

the energy of this week was once again community. this is also the energy for the month of october so with this being the first full week in the month, this energy is rather strong. reach out. reach out. reach out. make a phone call. visit a friend. invite a friend over. engage in an actual conversation. get out of your reality + see what someone else has going on. having a solid support system is what you’re going to need for who you’re becoming + where you’re going. life is much better with friends.

the last thing to discuss about last week was the challenge + that was feeling your feelings + not letting them control you. now that was quite the challenge wasn’t it? it wasn’t necessary completed in entirety but you did your best. i feel like the next time this challenge arises you will thrive if you keep it in mind. with that being said, they’ll be a lockscreen for the energy of the week made so you can see it every time you look at your phone.

this week was love. every single part of it. the highs, the lows, the tears + the smiles. it was all what it should’ve been. you got through it + you’re right here, right now. ready for this new week.

so, let’s get into it.

the message

“it’s only a thought + a thought can be changed. i am not limited by any past thinking. i choose my thoughts with care. i constantly have new insights + new ways of looking at my world. i am willing to change + grow.”

the change in your mindset that you’re going through right now… why not turn it up a notch? why not put in some overtime or extra muscle to get it in shape a little quicker. anytime you find yourself thinking negatively or limiting, reassure that thought by saying 10 positive affirmations about whatever you were thinking. atleast 10 for every one thought. you have to nurture that stubborn negativity so you can break out of that cycle. it’s kind of like scrubbing a tough stain. it just needs some extra attention to get to the level of niceness it once was.

“my income is constantly increasing. i begin now, today, to open myself to ever increasing prosperity.”

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“i have the perfect living space. i see myself living in a wonderful place. it fulfills all my needs + desires. it’s in a beautiful location + at a price i can afford.

the new space that you’re manifesting is right around the corner. your new life is right there waiting for you to lay eyes on it. you’re on the way to it. even though it has been a little confusing for both your finances + living arrangements lately, it’s about to get reaaaaal clear for you. and fast. you’re so abundant in so many ways. i’m so happy for you. i’m so happy you’re getting everything you’ve been working for. i’m so happy you’ve decided to work so had for all of these things.

the energy

community. once agaaaaaiiiinnnn. community is here. people are here for you + you need to allow them to be. you also need to be here for other people. it is good to get out of your bubble + reach out. see what’s going on outside of what you’re living every day. make time for friends + the people who care about you the most.

the best way to approach this current situation is to not burn yourself out everyday to the point that when it’s finally time for you to do your reaching out, you don’t because you just want to be alone. the gag is, you’ve been alone all the time that you spent by yourself burning out. you have to trust what’s going on + believe that you don’t have to stress over everything that you want to manifest into your life. .

there is a whole entire world going on around you but sometimes you get too wrapped up in your own thing to notice that. everyone on this earth right now is having their own unique experience. don’t you want to know, see + do more than what you’re currently doing? don’t you want friends? don’t you want to experience true joy from other people?

also, please don’t beat yourself up for having your moments where you’re feeling low. they’re necessary. like the storm before the rainbow, sometimes you have to get shaken up to reveal beautiful things. you’re able to appreciate things more if you had to go through something to get it anyways. keep that in mind.

the challenge

you have two options this week. you have to deliver a casket to a funeral home but you have to choose a hearse. in one, there is your old life with your old mindset, habits + beliefs. in the other hearse lies your brand new life that you’ve been creating and all the hard work you’ve been putting in. you can choose to bury your old life + fully step into this new one or you can let all this work go to waste + go back to the way things were. it’s completely up to you.

i’m sure the correct choice is obvious but it is definitely going to come with some more work. the shift is never ending, this is actually a forever job. the world is yours for the taking. you can either be on top of the world or the world can be on top of you. so what’s it going to be?

i’m rooting for you, we’re all rooting for you. you got this. this week is brand new and full of things to explore.

i love you.

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