.resistance

hey beautiful.

in order to reach your highest potential you have to stop fighting yourself. there’s an internal battle going on that you need to bring to an end. you can try to ignore it as much as you want but you know the pain is there, you know there’s so much going on that you’re simply pretending isn’t. you can not turn your head when a problem shows it’s face and think it’s gonna go away. it’s still there, probably causing more damage + chaos than if you would’ve just faced it when you first saw it.

you’ve been allowing these challenges to wreak havoc in your establishment + you clean up after them every night while they sleep peacefully just to wake up the next day to do it all over again. it’s time for that to stop… forreal. i know you’re exhausted so let’s set some rules in place. let’s figure out our boundaries + expectations for ourselves, call a meeting + have a discussion. there has to be some kind of order in place.

Me having a meeting with myself to get my life together

it’s been the most peaceful yet destructive war in herstory and it is time to bring it to an end. no more fighting, let’s make amends and be best friends. we have to be in harmony with ourselves in order to have peace of mind + live life to the fullest potential.

i love you

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.it’s time to harvest your crop, farmer

hey beautiful,

how does it feel to know that the seeds you’ve been planting are almost ready to be harvested? everything you’ve been working on is blooming like the flowers in the spring time + babaaaay… it’s beautiful. have you taken anytime lately to reflect on your growth? i remember when all of this was just a thought in your mind, an imagination gone wild, now look at you. you’re living your dream life. you’re a full time farmer with a flourishing garden.

all the love + attention that you’ve been giving to yourself + everything around you is very much appreciated. it’s grown so much in the last 6 months alone and that’s something you can’t deny. your harvest is bound to be a beautiful one.

give yourself the recognition you need in order to see how far you’ve come. zoom out so you can see the bigger picture + when you’re done, zoom in to be the bigger picture.

go through your old photos, notebook + anything else that takes you back a little bit. your outlook on your entire life will be elevated.

always know where you’re going, never forget where you came from, but remember right now is all you have.

i love you


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.forgive your parents

hey beautiful, 

you do know in order to progress in your life, you gotta forgive your parents right? you have to let go of any negative feelings you have towards them. you have to realize that they were only doing the best they could with the knowledge they had. yes, they may have hurt your feelings, caused a good amount of your trauma, + even held you back in life but you have to LET. THAT. GO. if you don’t, you’re going to be stuck in resentment mode + you know that’s not a good place to be. 

your parents are human just like you, they make mistakes just like you, they’re figuring out life just like you. you can’t hold anything against anyone if you want to step into a new way of living, including them. remember the energy of this week/month is releasing things that no longer serve us. maybe one of these things has to do with the way you view your parents. maybe there’s some things from your childhood that you need to process and heal. going down memory lane + digging a little deeper into what made you who you are today is necessary. i know it’s hard, but it’s not impossible. 

try your best to turn that anger + pain into compassion for them because they were once children too. + remember, how they were raised was reflected in how they raised you so technically, they are not to blame. at the same time, you can not just point out all the negative ways they affected you. you must appreciate them for all the positive ways too. look at how amazing you turned out to be. look at all the things you accomplished on your own + how much you’ve grown through in life. you didn’t do all of that by yourself, it was also the result of their parenting. so give them their proper credit. 

i promise you, once you decide to let go of all those ill feelings and forgive them, you will feel so much better. it will literally be a weight lifted off of your chest and a new door will open in your life. by forgiving your parents, not only are you setting them free, but you’re setting yourself free as well. try it out + watch the shift that comes with it.

i love you