.going against everything you’ve ever known

hey beautiful,

lately, the need to do our own thing, to think outside of the outside of the box, to carve out our own path instead of taking any that were travelled before has been in the air heavy.

for some reason, the normal doesn’t fit anymore. it’s almost as if we’ve outgrown it without any desire to ever squeeze into it again. we lost something that were more than okay with losing + because of that, we gained more than we ever had. we have more than we ever imagined we were capable of having. how beautiful is that?

sometimes, stepping out of line and going somewhere else is the best thing to do. even if you’ve been waiting there for the longest and you can finally see the front.

sometimes building your own thing from scratch is better than the finished product that everyone has been raving about for the past 20 years.

+ sometimes no one is going to believe in what you’re dreaming of + that’s more than okay. that’s the exact time where you increase your focus + drive yourself to the finish line with the least amount of stops possible. the time that you show up for yourself + go in on everything that you love.

the time to believe in yourself + block out any outside opinions + oppositions. cause at this point it isn’t about anyone else. it isn’t about proving everyone else wrong, but proving yourself right. proving that you can do anything you put your mind to. because you can.

you can do everything you want to do if you just believe it. i know we used to hear that a lot growing up, but it’s true. now is not the time to forget this, especially now that you desire a certain way of living. you can have it. you can have it all.

i love you

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.be like elsa + let it go

hey, beautiful.

please continue to forgive yourself and let go of the past. continue to leave all of that behind. all of the trauma, negativity, pain, sadness, anything that major passed, not enjoyable. you have to let it go.

because when I say BAG LADY… + i was saying this for some time, but we really need to listen to the messages that i be talking about because this is real. but you being a bag lady is holding you back so much like, you keep revisiting the past in your head. like thinking of all the ways you’ve been hurt or all the ways you could have did something different or all the things you wish would have been or could have been like, let that go. you’re here right now.

so be here. be present. let it go. it’s not just as easy as “okay, bye” but you have to forgive yourself and know that you did the best that you could do.

okay? you know i gotta bring the cards out…

“we are all doing the best we can with the understanding, knowledge + awareness we have.”

anything that you feel like was a mistake…it wasn’t. that was the best you could do. that was the best you could offer yourself + other people too. other people around you who you feel like lacked or you feel like, did you wrong or didn’t do something the right way?

they did the best that they could do. they did what they knew to do, okay. + you really have to focus on forgiving yourself for that. because once you forgive yourself, you can remove yourself from that space of, “oh, i’m sad. oh, i’m so hurt from my past.” like you’re going to be hurt forever if you never let it go.

so let’s work on letting it go now. let’s work on allowing yourself to be free. let’s work on healing. let’s work on growing anymore. let’s do that.

i still want to continue to say like “i see you. i see everything you’re doing. i feel you. i feel your energy bubbling and growing.”

i see your rays shining from you. so just keep at it. keep doing everything that you can. you’re unlocking so many things. you’re in a whole new life. you’re doing so much.

you’re a whole new person. + don’t that feel good to know that you’ve grown to become this person you are today? it feels good for me. so trust that. okay? let it go.

it’s nobody’s fault.

trust me, my baby. it’s okay. it’s okay to be who you are.

shining like a star. okay? don’t make me start dropping bars.

continue to heal. continue to let go. continue to grow. continue to say your affirmations, continue to change your mindset, continue to love and be free. all right? that’s all I got for you tonight. i love you so much.

i love you.


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.simply amazing

hey boo,

ever since you’ve decided to allow love to be a permanent resident in your life things have started to change for the better. have you noticed that? everything has started to blossom right before your eyes simply because you decided that it was time to. you saw that your garden needed to be tended too + deserved a little more love + now look. look at all the abundance that you’ve cultivated. now try to imagine everything that’s going to flourish as you keep doing what you’re doing.

allowing all of the love to flow into your life has also allowed love to flow out of you into the people around you and this has manifested into beautiful relationships. even if these relationships have not yet reached their full potential, it’s already the start of something new + if you really take some time to examine them, you will be able to find the beauty in them. maybe it’s an unfamiliar beauty because you’ve never seen it before but it’s beauty nonetheless. everything around you is looking better + better with each moment that passes.

the days of not being able to maintain healthy relationships are behind you now because you know so much more + you know that in order to have the things you desire you have to be the one that does everything to obtain them. no one else is going to hand you anything or do all of the hard work for you. in order to see a change, you have to be the change + the rewards of working so hard for these things make them that much better. you have to be one who calls the shots + you realize that now.

you’re healing. everything you’re growing through is a part of your healing process + you can’t stop here now can you? can you even remember how things used to be? better question: can you imagine stopping right here + going back to where you once were? i highly doubt the answer is yes. this entire journey is so worth it. every pain, challenge, tear, smile, stretch… everything. it’s all a contribution to the person you are becoming. and that person is simply amazing.

i love you.

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.buckle up

hey boo,

everything you’re experiencing right now is taking you to greater places. all the pain you’re feeling, all the joy, all the change… everything is created + crafted especially for you. i know, i know it’s all unfamiliar. it’s all strange looking + different but that’s a good thing. that means you’re changing + growing. if you were still doing the familiar routine, living the same life that would mean you were in the same place you were however long ago.

you have got to trust this process + know that life is not sending you on a rat race. you are in control now. you have set your destination + you know where you want to go, you just have to get there. think about when you’re going somewhere new + you enter the address into the gps. do you second guess the gps every time it tells you to go in a new direction? or do you just move forward + know that you’re going to get there because you told it where you want to go?

it’s the same thing with this journey in life that you’re on. you may not have had a concrete destination before so you were getting sent wherever the wind blew you. but now, things are different. now you have an exact location in mind so you can’t be steered wrong. have trust in the universe + have trust in yourself because you’re a team.

+ you picked the right teammate because you’re already winning.

i love you.

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.jump right in

hey beautiful,

you made it through another week, another 7 days, another 168 hours + although it was a little much in the end you reached peace. the peace that you’ve been looking for, you finally found it. you just had to get through the noise in your head that was having too much fun being loud + wrong. i love that for you.

have you realized that this is literally your dream life? this very moment right here, every single moment that you are living right now is your dream life. look at it, if you haven’t notice this, look at what you’ve been doing. look at all the things in your life that’s happened recently + really analyze it. it all has some role in the movie that you’re starring in. this is what you’ve been asking for, this is the script you’ve been working so hard on.

i just wanna give you a shoutout because you KEEP having breakthroughs and leveling up. you are the truest version of yourself that you’ve ever been. round of applause

i love that for you too.

also, i’m super happy that you’re continuously working on trusting the process. with each day, you lean in a bit more + give away a piece of control. keep that up, keep making progress, keep doing what you’re doing, you’re doing amazing. there’s no other pace that you have to go at but your own, this life is a life of comfort.

you’re really here right now, living your dream life….

go ahead… you can smile, you can get up + dance, you can even scream with joy. let it OUT! let that happiness out, the universe loves knowing that it’s making you happy. keep giving + keep getting. it’s literally like the 3….2….1…. blast off type of situation. we’ve taken off in a rocket speeding into space and we’re about to explore the entire galaxy.

trust me, we’re farrrrrr away from houston. so, no worries there.

okay sooo… i hope you’re buckled up buckaroo cause this week is about to be a ride. hold on to your hat.

the message

“the best way to learn how to swim, is to jump right in”.

you’ve tested the waters, you know it’s the perfect temperature + you’re going to be safe in there so get in. it’s been fun putting your feet in + trying to not get your hair wet or whatever, but let’s do something different. what are you afraid of? having fun? do you hear how ridiculous that is?

it’s time for the final call on the things that can’t go with you to your new life. the box of things labeled “maybe” is the last thing you need to get through before you’re clear to move. word of advice: if you’ve been contemplating this long… it’s probably something that’s not good for you but you enjoy it. things like that aren’t welcome in the new land, they’re actually banned. so, i’d go ahead + get rid of it if i were you.

the energy

focus on your community. seriously, when you rememerge from your shell that you’re in right now COME ON OUT. come outsideeeeee. don’t be shy or afraid of anything that is here for you in this world because remember, everything that is on the way to you is for your greater good. everything that is coming is helping you grow. it’s all happening for you, not to you.

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but back to the community…

reach out to your people. you need to connect with the people around you. this is one of the things that you have to decide to throw away because it’s hindering you. and although, you’re safe in your head because other people can’t reject you, that fear has to go. you can’t hold onto that fear anymore. it isn’t serving you, it’s holding you back + i promise you, the greatest things in your life is on the flip side of this.

the challenge

face yourself. face your fears, figure them out + assign them new roles. you are the ceo of all this stuff going on inside of you. for sure, sometimes you can’t help what you feel about some things but you can definitely control how these feelings affect you. when you face yourself, you’ll be looking from a different view so you’ll be able to see things you’ve never seen before. you may even look like somebody off the street, but keep looking, it’ll start looking real familiar.

when you look within yourself and see things in a different light, it will automatically be reflected in your outer sight. meaning, your reality will also continue to be redecorated. note: when you’re getting new furniture and moving things around,have some type of visual in mind. even if that’s the combination of four different house styles, 7 different colors + a different era in every room. you can do that, you can do anything what you want but you need a plan. not a plan in your head, not some idea that’s having fun sitting at imagination station, but a plan that you write/draw out, a plan that you revisit every day, a plan that you work on all. thee. time. if someone who didn’t live inside your head all day came and read this plan of yours they should be able to see it exactly how you imagine.

trust me, this works, try it out.

the word

bountiful
large in quantity; abundant.

that’s what this week will be(period)

well, that’s all i got. i’m 100% sure, that’s not all you have in store but no need to ruin the surprise, we’re going to be right there when it unfolds + that’s the fun part.

i love you

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.shake a leg

hey beautiful,

the jig is up. no more charades, mediocre magic tricks, or cliffhangers. no more pretending you are someone you’re not. you can no longer try to function this way + i’m glad you realize that now. it’s time to take your talents that have created your current reality + give them a new task. the task of…

✨creating your dream life✨

lowkey, they already started working on it on the side but, with it being the main focus, there is so much more that can get done. when you’re able to give something your undivided attention, the execution is bound to be pristine. minimize the multitasking + things will get done more efficiently. i need you to realize how big of a mural you’re painting. yes, you’re working on a small portion of it right now but you have to zoom out occasionally so you can remember what the bigger picture looks like.

remember, it’s more than okay to rest. you’re going to have to be well rested to produce the life of quality that you are producing. chilling is not a crime, taking time to yourself does not make you lazy + you can sleep in sometimes. don’t beat yourself up for taking care of you and making sure you’re okay. if you ever feel like you need a “break” from life, you definitely need to rest. a break implies that something has to be broken and life is full of moments that should be enjoyed + cherished.

create the reality you never need a break from.

they literally fooled a lot of us. i’m thinking of all the negative sayings that we used to casually say about our lives. we should never want to escape from reality because reality should be bliss. you should be able to be in any given moment + want to be nowhere else in the world than exactly where you are. every second of every day should be a blast of fun and love.

this is your dream life. right here, right now. each + every moment of your life is leading you in the direction of where you want to go. you’re the magician + it’s time to learn how to really put on a show. you might wanna learn fast because it already started and you’re the only act there is.

shake a leg.

i love you

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.resistance

hey beautiful.

in order to reach your highest potential you have to stop fighting yourself. there’s an internal battle going on that you need to bring to an end. you can try to ignore it as much as you want but you know the pain is there, you know there’s so much going on that you’re simply pretending isn’t. you can not turn your head when a problem shows it’s face and think it’s gonna go away. it’s still there, probably causing more damage + chaos than if you would’ve just faced it when you first saw it.

you’ve been allowing these challenges to wreak havoc in your establishment + you clean up after them every night while they sleep peacefully just to wake up the next day to do it all over again. it’s time for that to stop… forreal. i know you’re exhausted so let’s set some rules in place. let’s figure out our boundaries + expectations for ourselves, call a meeting + have a discussion. there has to be some kind of order in place.

Me having a meeting with myself to get my life together

it’s been the most peaceful yet destructive war in herstory and it is time to bring it to an end. no more fighting, let’s make amends and be best friends. we have to be in harmony with ourselves in order to have peace of mind + live life to the fullest potential.

i love you

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.growing pains

hey beautiful,

the pain that some of these days bring is an effect of growth. you’re growing beyond who you used to be so it’s getting uncomfortable. the lifestyle you got so accustomed to doesn’t fit you anymore soooo it’s time to get a new wardrobe. it’s’ time to make a wish list of all the new things you want in life. and then go get them.

if you’ve been feeling like life has been looking ugly it’s only because you’re evolving into something so beautiful. some of the days on this journey will definitely be more challenging than others but that’s just part of the process. those days when you aren’t sure of what’s going on or where you’re going are necessary to push you a little further.

it’s time to goooooo

i’m talking about coming out of this with bagssss of brand new stuff. new this, thrifted that, gift someone this, get yourself that. only the things that really matter will look familiar to you. you’re moving onto the next stage + there’s plenty of room for you there. it’s time to upgrade. it’s time to move!!

you deserve it… you deserve to have everything you want out of life. you’re moving onto the next stage + there’s plenty of room for you there.

it’s time to upgrade… it’s time to move.

i love you

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.slow + steady wins the race

hey beautiful,

have you been taking notice of all the love that is flooding into your life? it’s literally running to you at this point but that’s because you’re allowing it to. you’ve been opening up to the idea of unconditional love + the open arms have been noticed. i love that for you.

continue everything you’re doing because it’s working. just take a look back to where you were 6 months ago. did you see most of the things that you’re seeing now? did you feel the same way you feel today? would you say you are the same person that you are today? i highly doubt the answer to any of those questions are yes. but if it is that’s okay too, there’s always time to grow + change.

this is still the beginning of a new life for you so don’t feel like you have to rush through it. you’re exactly where you need to be, you’re going at the right pace + everything will fall into place exactly how it should. keep up the love, keep letting it flow in. i know it feels good to be living this way. and now that you know what it’s like on this side of life there’s really no going back to the way things used to be.

i love you.

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.whatever happens, happens

hey beautiful,

slow down. your mind is constantly racing + it’s in need of a break. you can not overthink every single thought. you really just have to let things play out the way they were meant to.

every situation that you come across is going to unfold eventually, so why not let it do just that? why not let it play out first + figure it out along the way. instead of creating all these scenarios + outcomes in your mind that will never actually happen, be here in real life. know that whatever is on it’s way to you is exactly what you need in life. whatever is going to happen is going to happen.

be a little more patient + let life do it’s thing. become indulged in the present moment because once it’s gone, it’s gone…you’ll never get it back. trust the universe + the path it has created for you because it is the best one for you. life will not let you down, you have to know that y’all are on the same team. you are the co-creator of your life so living a life of harmony is the best way to live it.

seriously take some time each day to ground yourself + realize that you’re actually here right now. meditate, journal, talk to people around you because you need to get out of the clouds. you need to be here right now. you’ve made it through everything that came your way thus far so, you’re winning. get out of your head love, it’s time to play the main character and enjoy everything that’s in store for you.

i love you.

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