.please enter your new destination

hey beautiful,

so today is a new moon + i don’t know, i’m kind of feeling like… i expected the beginning of this year to just be so refreshing + motivating + energizing + it’s just was not. like it did not bring that energy but i guess it did bring the energy that was needed cause when you come to think about it, like all year, all 2021, it was hustle + grind + create + produce. + even in the reading for this year 2022 on the last episode, this is the year of rest. so i kind of get it now. i kind of still wish there was a lot more energy. but it just doesn’t need to be i guess. this is just something that we’re going to have to get used to going into this new year; not being on go so much, not constantly creating + producing + cranking things out + just chilling + vibing + calling things to us instead of just constantly running towards something. because we need that. like we need to be where we are and be able to relax + just exist + i feel like this is honestly the best way to start off the year.

i remember seeing something
that said “what you’re doing the first day of the new year is what you will be doing throughout it” + at first i was thinking “dang, i’m sluggish low key like i don’t really feel too hot, i don’t really want to do much” but that’s exactly what i’m going to be doing all year. chilling, relaxing, enjoying life, creating, existing + being free. being myself. so i appreciate that when i actually take the time to look at the picture a little different. i see, okay cool, this is what it is + this is what it ain’t + i’m just excited for this year + today is the new moon. i believe it’s in Capricorn… let me check. yeah the new moon is in Capricorn and i’ve been seeing stuff.

i didn’t do a reading on the new moon cause i feel like i should have did it a couple days ago if i was going to do it but i was looking at other people’s readings that they were doing + basically i kept seeing setting your intentions + focusing your energies towards what you want. this is going to be an intense energy + it is bringing new beginnings + blessings + something is in retrograde. okay i’m looking at something now + i know for the reading for the year, it was saying focus on your intentions. + it says “focus on your intentions. what do you want to feel? feel this feeling + decide what in your life needs to shift to support this feeling.”

@spiritdaughter on ig

so, set your intentions today if you don’t do nothing else. set your intentions for the year. write out the things that you want to bring into this year, into this month, into this week, into your days. set your intentions every day you wake up. before you do anything, when you’re going into something, when you’re talking to the people around you, when you’re looking for something, when you’re trying something new + you’re creating, have your intentions set on what is the end goal. make sure that you’re not just doing stuff for nothing + just floating aimlessly throughout this life. set your intentions so you can know what you need to do and where you need to go to get there. i feel like you really need to ask for things you want like close mouths don’t get fed. that’s just been a message on my mind today like ask for what you want…being afraid of rejection.

+ that’s actually a chapter that i read today in “Conquering Fear” by Harold S Kushner. it was the fear of rejection, like you can’t allow the fear of being turned down,of being a let go, of being denied stop you from trying for the things you want. especially when you look at it as not rejection but guidance into a new direction. just because you didn’t get that job or that person didn’t want to be with you anymore or you didn’t make the team or this brand don’t want to work with you, that’s okay. it wasn’t for you at that moment. something may work out later along the line or it might be the push that you needed to go in a new direction. so sometimes when you try out for things + it doesn’t work it has nothing to do with you personally or your lack of, or your nonabilities but it’s actually good for you.

that just goes back to knowing that you’re safe, you’re always in the right place. everything is always working out for you. everything is going towards your highest good. yaknowaimsaying? so i just need you to know that. having that fear of rejection my baby, you need to let it go + that’s another thing that we were saying about being yourself. stepping out as yourself, presenting yourself to world, allowing the world to see you because you cannot be rejected by people who are meant for you. if something is meant for you, my baby, it’s meant for you but you will never know unless you go for it, unless you put yourself out there, unless you try out + fill out that paper, unless you go to the place you will never know what life has in store for you. you will never know my baby so i’m trying to tell you how to do these things.

i just had to tell you that you need to go for everything that you want this year. like this is your year. if you want something my baby, you have to go get it. it is sitting right there for you + it might not be in the first place you look it might not be in a 2nd, the 7th, the 12th but it might be in the 13th. just keep looking for the thing that you want to find in your life + eventually you will find it. if you never go looking, if you never sign up for the scavenger hunt, if you never go to the place where this thing is. if you stay stuck in the place where you are where you know there’s no possible reason for this thing that you want to be there, if you’ve never seen it before where you are, you have to go somewhere different. you have to push yourself out there you have to try to reach this new place. yaknowaimsaying? you have to map it out, you have to figure out the travels + you have to see yourself doing it + then actually go do it.

set your intentions for every single thing that you want this year to bring to you. everything that you want to step into + evolve into. i promise you my baby you gone have it cause you got to know that everything that you wanted last year, you got it + if you don’t have it physically, right now in this moment my baby it’s still right there. you just have not reached it yet. it’s still on this journey that you’re working towards + that you’re walking down, it’s still on your path somewhere but you just cannot see it until you get to it. so keep going after your dreams. keep deciding what you want, how you’re going to live + how you’re going to want your world you know what I’m saying? decide how you want to feel + then and then go for it. go feel it. go experience it.

if you want some sushi you’re not going to say “let me go to burger king” you know you want sushi so why not go to the sushi spot or publix? you’re not going to find sushi if you’re looking at Burger King. we have to actively make these decisions + actively know where we want to go + go in that direction my baby. yaknowaimsaying? you know you want to go home why would you go to another bar? you’re not going to find your bed there. you’re not going to find your makeup wipes there. you’re not going to find your soothing lullabies that lull you to sleep every night. you’re not going to find your partner there, your child, you’re not going to find your kitchen, your burrito that you had for lunch earlier that you were saving for when you got home you’re not going to find it in this place so you need to go to where you are likely to find these things you desire my baby okay? make sure you are aligning yourself with the places that you want to go to. you don’t need to sign up for field trips that you don’t want to go to just because it’s cool + everybody else is hanging out there…no. you know there’s nothing for you there so don’t go. don’t do it. okay? put yourself first. do what you want to do for you. relax.

oh, another message my baby: a clean house is cool but a clean house 24/7 is CRAZY. that’s actually crazy. you is doing too much. yaknowaimsaying? you either don’t have kids, don’t make a lot of mess, don’t cook… you know barely be home. but if you are a regular degular person, mom, creative… relax.

i love you.

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.closing the curtains

hey beautiful,

so… it is almost january the first + i just listened to the 2021 prediction again. i kind of just took some notes.
i just wanted to reflect on this year. really look at your growth. really admire how far you’ve came, really see all the things you’ve accomplished.

i was writing out all my major accomplishments this year + recently i’ve started writing out all my daily accomplishments. it just helps to see how far you’ve truly came, how much you truly do. so you can genuinely see how much you do + not give yourself the short end of the stick when it comes time to recognize who you are.

that’s one of the messages we’ve been receiving… “acknowledge everything you do” + that’s been a great way for me to do that. literally everything i did that day, i wrote it down. i went back + i acknowledged myself for those things.

2021 is coming to an end + it’s been quite the year. i feel like there’s been so much growth. so many developments + achievements… just a whole lot. one of the first things i had talked about 2021 bringing was emotions. getting a better understanding of your emotions + with that understanding came a very difficult journey, a very unknown journey. there was a comparison of going down a tunnel but there being jewels at the end of the tunnel. the whole tunnel ride is unknown, a little dark, not looking too familiar or promising but at the end there’s this beautiful product.

i feel like that happened exactly. i feel like we were able to feel how we feel, understand that + be unapologetic about it. that was a great lesson that was learned… being aware of who you are + being unapologetic about it. moving with intentions, using your emotions to help you navigate + make your decisions.

2021 was the year of moving forward. the year of becoming the creator of your own reality, understanding your powers + being present. getting out of your head + putting all of your powers to use was a huge thing that happened this year. you had to realize that you are always on time wherever you were in life + that allowed you to blossom into the person that you are right now. there was so much work that was completed + sometimes there was some overworking done but that has set you up for the year that you’re are stepping into.

2021 was the one + 2022 we are brand new.

give yourself a large round of applause for all of your hard work, dedication, drive and motivation. all the lessons you learned, the things you opened yourself up to, all the techniques you applied, all the strategies you built up, the people you met, the promises you delivered, the people you met, your health, the food you ate, the places you went. all of your daily accomplishments + visions that you brought to life. all of these things, you did. you prepared yourself for all of the greater things that are coming your way.

you did that. the entire year, you never gave up on yourself. you kept going, you kept working on yourself. your personal development that you experienced this year is actually crazy. it’s such a beautiful thing.

the doors are opening up for next year. are you ready?

i love you

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.going against everything you’ve ever known

hey beautiful,

lately, the need to do our own thing, to think outside of the outside of the box, to carve out our own path instead of taking any that were travelled before has been in the air heavy.

for some reason, the normal doesn’t fit anymore. it’s almost as if we’ve outgrown it without any desire to ever squeeze into it again. we lost something that were more than okay with losing + because of that, we gained more than we ever had. we have more than we ever imagined we were capable of having. how beautiful is that?

sometimes, stepping out of line and going somewhere else is the best thing to do. even if you’ve been waiting there for the longest and you can finally see the front.

sometimes building your own thing from scratch is better than the finished product that everyone has been raving about for the past 20 years.

+ sometimes no one is going to believe in what you’re dreaming of + that’s more than okay. that’s the exact time where you increase your focus + drive yourself to the finish line with the least amount of stops possible. the time that you show up for yourself + go in on everything that you love.

the time to believe in yourself + block out any outside opinions + oppositions. cause at this point it isn’t about anyone else. it isn’t about proving everyone else wrong, but proving yourself right. proving that you can do anything you put your mind to. because you can.

you can do everything you want to do if you just believe it. i know we used to hear that a lot growing up, but it’s true. now is not the time to forget this, especially now that you desire a certain way of living. you can have it. you can have it all.

i love you

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.be like elsa + let it go

hey, beautiful.

please continue to forgive yourself and let go of the past. continue to leave all of that behind. all of the trauma, negativity, pain, sadness, anything that major passed, not enjoyable. you have to let it go.

because when I say BAG LADY… + i was saying this for some time, but we really need to listen to the messages that i be talking about because this is real. but you being a bag lady is holding you back so much like, you keep revisiting the past in your head. like thinking of all the ways you’ve been hurt or all the ways you could have did something different or all the things you wish would have been or could have been like, let that go. you’re here right now.

so be here. be present. let it go. it’s not just as easy as “okay, bye” but you have to forgive yourself and know that you did the best that you could do.

okay? you know i gotta bring the cards out…

“we are all doing the best we can with the understanding, knowledge + awareness we have.”

anything that you feel like was a mistake…it wasn’t. that was the best you could do. that was the best you could offer yourself + other people too. other people around you who you feel like lacked or you feel like, did you wrong or didn’t do something the right way?

they did the best that they could do. they did what they knew to do, okay. + you really have to focus on forgiving yourself for that. because once you forgive yourself, you can remove yourself from that space of, “oh, i’m sad. oh, i’m so hurt from my past.” like you’re going to be hurt forever if you never let it go.

so let’s work on letting it go now. let’s work on allowing yourself to be free. let’s work on healing. let’s work on growing anymore. let’s do that.

i still want to continue to say like “i see you. i see everything you’re doing. i feel you. i feel your energy bubbling and growing.”

i see your rays shining from you. so just keep at it. keep doing everything that you can. you’re unlocking so many things. you’re in a whole new life. you’re doing so much.

you’re a whole new person. + don’t that feel good to know that you’ve grown to become this person you are today? it feels good for me. so trust that. okay? let it go.

it’s nobody’s fault.

trust me, my baby. it’s okay. it’s okay to be who you are.

shining like a star. okay? don’t make me start dropping bars.

continue to heal. continue to let go. continue to grow. continue to say your affirmations, continue to change your mindset, continue to love and be free. all right? that’s all I got for you tonight. i love you so much.

i love you.


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.november 2021: a reading

hey boo,

it’s about that time. we’ve come to the conclusion of another 31 days and november has finally arrived to us for this year. before we dive into this new month so quickly, let’s take a look at october.

how do you feel october treated you? hopefully the answer is very well because it did it’s best. it came through + kept every word that it told us in the beginning. it came with major respect and manners. october was definitely a month of huge change + prosperity and sitting here at the end of it, you can see that now. you’re shifting your entire world one moment at a time + please keep it up because the show must go on.

these past few weeks we learned about accepting change, partnerships + as always… trusting the process. everything that you wanted to work out + you allowed it to work out did just that… it worked out exactly as it always has. continue building this trust in the universe so the bond is immaculate. there is plenty more abundance out there, october was just a taste.

the message

“i trust my inner wisdom. as i go about my daily affairs, i listen to my own guidance. my intuition is always on my side. i trust it to be there at all times. i am safe.”
+
“divine wisdom guides me. i am guided throughout this day in making the right choices. divine intelligence continuously guides me in the realization of my goals. i am safe.”

with both of these cards coming out after one another this is kind of an exclamation mark. we really need to pay attention to our intuition + believe that we know where we are going. we already know + have everything that we need to lead us to that great destination. once you tell the universe where you want to go… you have to trust that the directions it gives you will lead you there. if you need to strengthen your intuition this month… by all means, please do that.

“my healing is already in process. my willingness to forgive begins my healing process. i allow the love form my own heart to wash through me, cleansing + healing every part of my body. i know that i am worth healing”

this healing journey is one that will continue to go on forever. you will continue to evolve every day you go through life + that is a beautiful thing. in order to heal my baby, you have to feel pain + this month… there will be a little extra healing involved. so any pain you feel this month, know that you are in the process of healing… that’s all this is. you’re shedding this layer of old and growing the necessary cells needed to protect your new self. continue shedding + growing, it will all be worth it.

“i now go beyond other people’s fears + limitations. it is my mind that creates my experiences. i am unlimited in my own ability to create the good in my life.”

you are the only co-creator of your life. there is no one else on this face of the earth who should be given the power to limit you or crush your dreams. all the ideas + beliefs that you have are yours + you should stand beside them until you can’t stand anymore… + even then… you have to sit beside them. you are changing the game because you decided too + people who have been playing the game the old way may not necessarily see why you want to change the rules because it’s been going okay. + if they see it this way, they definitely won’t agree with what you got going on. but know that that is not your problem + when you figure it all out + everything falls into place they might even want to know how you did it.

the energy

november is bringing abundance. we are in a rebirth stage. the old version of you is no longer existing my baby. you’re giving birth to this new life + that is a beautiful thing. know that with a birth, you have to go through growth, pains, being uncomfortable, LABOR + some more stuff. it isn’t going to just be delivered to your door… you have to go through somethings before you get what you’ve been working on. in order to have this thing, you have to have a little shake up. so things are going to have to get a little ugly. you can’t have ugly without beauty anyways. you’ve been preparing yourself for this new baby + the time is now. the contractions are getting intense but at the end of this it will all be so worth it.

keep putting yourself out there. keep stepping into your purpose + filling your life with your passion + a whole lot of love. all the love that you’ve been cultivating is going to allow your entire life to take off. this way that you’re doing things is the perfect way for you. november is coming through with a lot of beauty + also some challenges so let’s talk about it.

the challenges

continue to put yourself out there + release the people who are not meant to go where you’re going. it’s time for a weight check + it’s looking like you’re overcapacity. they can not come with you love, you can not save people who do not want to be saved. you’re going to have to look at these situations from a different perspective because you’re going to a place with a new view. upgrade your vision so you can really see how these situations are really playing themselves out. + once you move… everyone can not get an invite to the house warming party… or any party after that until they meet the new energy requirements. no worries… you will both have a great time on your own.

do not give any whiff of breath to old situations, habits or people. if you are going to bury this old version of life, you have to leave it there. we don’t want to see you at 2 o clock in the morning digging up a grave because you miss something or need something familiar for some comfort. it’s okay. you’ve outgrown these things. when you release them, release them with love. you don’t have to hate them or send them any negativity because you have to part ways. you can both still thrive.

the word

transformation:

a thorough or dramatic change in form or appearance.

this is a transformation. your whole world is about to have a huge change in form + appearance.

thank you in advance november. we are here waiting for you with open arms. make yourself at home.

let’s make best friends with this month love. november has a lot more in store for us than the sneak peek that it just gave us.

i love you.

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.i love my life

i love my life.

i love my life.

i love my life.

that’s what you need to tell yourself throughout each + every day. you have to know that you’re walking in love every single moment. when you love life, life starts to love you back and that’s the best life to live. a life full of love, happiness + abundance. the life that you’re already living. if you tilt your head a little bit, and maybe even squint, you’ll see it crystal clear.

remember when the trend “i h*** my life” was going around? did you participate in saying that? it was a trick, you were bamboozled into casting a not so wonderful spell upon your life. saying those words created the reality that you were living in + of course manifested a plethora of things that caused you to h*** your life. but now we can change those words. we can start casting a different spell to work some new magic. i mean, it’s spooky season, we really need to tap into our inner witch + wizard.

think of all the spells you cast on a regular with all the things you say every day. you can now choose to change these ways. you can change the direction of where you’re going with a simple pivot of your foot, one easy flick of a light switch. + you can do it right now. you have been choosing everything that has been happening in your life. just take a peep at trying something new, if you don’t then you can go back to the way things were. but you’ll never know unless you try.

also, the people that are currently in your life… don’t lose them. the relationships you have been building are all meaningful and they will continue to grow. just like the spells you’ve been casting, you’ve been choosing to be distant and not maintain relationships with people but it’s time to change. now, you can learn some new skills and keep them alive. the love that you’ve been giving yourself has gotten to level where you can stat pouring into others and not be burnt out. this feels good, you know it does.

keep doing everything that you’re doing, you’re on the right track.

i love you.

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.simply amazing

hey boo,

ever since you’ve decided to allow love to be a permanent resident in your life things have started to change for the better. have you noticed that? everything has started to blossom right before your eyes simply because you decided that it was time to. you saw that your garden needed to be tended too + deserved a little more love + now look. look at all the abundance that you’ve cultivated. now try to imagine everything that’s going to flourish as you keep doing what you’re doing.

allowing all of the love to flow into your life has also allowed love to flow out of you into the people around you and this has manifested into beautiful relationships. even if these relationships have not yet reached their full potential, it’s already the start of something new + if you really take some time to examine them, you will be able to find the beauty in them. maybe it’s an unfamiliar beauty because you’ve never seen it before but it’s beauty nonetheless. everything around you is looking better + better with each moment that passes.

the days of not being able to maintain healthy relationships are behind you now because you know so much more + you know that in order to have the things you desire you have to be the one that does everything to obtain them. no one else is going to hand you anything or do all of the hard work for you. in order to see a change, you have to be the change + the rewards of working so hard for these things make them that much better. you have to be one who calls the shots + you realize that now.

you’re healing. everything you’re growing through is a part of your healing process + you can’t stop here now can you? can you even remember how things used to be? better question: can you imagine stopping right here + going back to where you once were? i highly doubt the answer is yes. this entire journey is so worth it. every pain, challenge, tear, smile, stretch… everything. it’s all a contribution to the person you are becoming. and that person is simply amazing.

i love you.

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.flocks of abundance

hey boo,

everything is working out for your greater good + realizing that is key to get everything you want out of life. the internal battle is coming to an end after years of no rest because you’ve decided on peace. you’ve realized there’s no need to continue a war with yourself because either way you’re the only one getting hurt.

blessings are flocking to you in many different ways and you’re more open to them now. there still may be a small amount of resistance you have because of the many years of training you’ve done but that’s more on the “just in case” side which is much better than the front line. you got this. continue being open to these things and they will continue to flock to you. soon, you’ll be surrounded by more abundance and greatness than you could’ve ever imagined.

this is your destiny. this very moment is your destiny.

i love you

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.body ody ody

hey boo,

have you been ignoring your body lately? when you go throughout your days you have to keep in mind that you are a multidimensional being. you are more than your thoughts, body + emotions. you are all of those things and then some. sometimes your body will speak to you by causing pain or dis-ease, all you have to do is tune in and you can easily figure out when something isn’t right + what that something is.

we have come to a time where we’ve been trained to quickly turn to doctors to figure out what is going on with our bodies + medicine to get rid of the symptoms. with that being the norm, it’s not a surprise that most of us are disconnected with the very vessels that we were given to go through this life with. it’s not too late to really get to know + understand your body.

with the constant comparison of everyone on social media, tv + magazines we can forget that we’re all unique. so, what works for the next 2,000 people may not work for you + that is okay. that’s completely normal. we have to get back in tune with our true selves + figure out what works best for us.

start paying attention to your body especially when the same things occur at different times. you may find that there is a clear pattern to it all. you just have to take note of everything that’s going on + when these things come up. your body is really your temple, if you don’t take care of it, it is more than capable of crumbling.

i love you.

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.no more bubble wrap

hey boo,

have you been feeling trapped lately? today is the perfect time to look deeper into what exactly has you feeling like this. you have to start believing you are safe exactly who, where, how, what + why you are. the life that you used to live pleasing others is behind you so it’s time to fully step into the role of you. there is no one who can do you better than you. there’s also no one who can tell you how to live your life because it completely belongs to you.

if there’s something you’ve been dreaming of or wanting to do but you haven’t because of how other people may feel about it or look at you, this is your sign to go for it. no matter if it’s not tradition, it’s something that’s never been done before or whatever the case maybe… you should go for it. you can no longer be afraid to live your dream life because how the masses believe life should be lived. it’s your turn now + if you want to take a different route, you have every right to.

when you go for this thing, you have to make sure you’re going for it with minimum fear. these voices from outside of you may have convinced you that what you have planned may not work, but you have to silence these thoughts + chant words of confidence + reassurance to yourself. it may take some time to gain your full confidence but it’s best to start on your projects and build it as you go instead of waiting to start working when it’s fully built.. cause in that case, you’ll be waiting forever.

you got this. whatever it is that you want to do, know that you can do it. know that this is part of your journey + this is what you were meant to do. start unraveling all those protective + limiting layers that the world has been wrapping you up in. you’ve arrived at your destination, you no longer need the bubble wrap that has been “protecting” you from life.

i love you .